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This year has been quiet and off to a slow start. I am enjoying the moment of relaxation as I know things are going to start kicking up and I’m going to have less time to relax.

I had one of those days the other day that it just seemed that nothing was going as expected. What normally would have sent me straight down the pit of negativity did not. I managed to keep a positive attitude and continued to do the things I needed to do.

Its not always easy looking at a situation and going where did I do good here and where did I not do so good. It takes a brutal honesty at times and one must be willing to be that honest with themselves. Its the only true way we can grow.

I don’t always like what I see and I still have a tendency to want to run away from it. I’m learning to stand my ground in such things.

I recently joined one of those dating site to try and meet a few people and see if anything I can get a few decent friends from it. I started talking to this one lady and she seemed very nice very down to earth and I was intrigued. We had a lot in common but we also had some differences. Yesterday she asked me to delete my account on the site and she will do the same. I asked why she said so that I could prove to her I was serious about her. I told her first off we have only been talking to each other for about a day. I immediately recognized the insecurity this lady has and I told her I will not delete my account and accomadate her insecurity.

In doin so I recognized my own insecurites and I stood up to them. I chose to be stronger than they are. I liked the lady however I told her that she is not going to make me pay for her insecurites.

The final thing I told her was that if she only focus’s on the destination she will miss the journey and its the journey that molds and shapes life the destination well that is just the end. I wished her luck and am back to square one :/

But its ok because it was a very good moment for me. I took the time to realize something and instead of acting out in the usual negative way I chose to take care of me. To realize that I can control that which I do want and I do not want in my life to some extent. Maybe not in all things but maybe in those things that matter the most.

I am allowing myself to enjoy my little victory. It brings me even closer to my higher self. I thank the highers for giving me such a moment and assisting me along the way. I walk a little lighter and my head a bit higher.